I have been observing a lot of people around me using different new phrases these days.. a new language… half baked… its called “this  n that” language…

Tentative.. god know how they understand each other…

But here are few phrases… which gives a glimpse of us…  Our new society..

“its ok…

“No its really not ok…

“what do you mean?

“I know what you mean…

“Only i know what you mean…

“You will never get this… never…

“Anyways, god bless..take care…

“Hmmmmmm…..

“You mean a lot to me..

“I can’t believe this..

“Keep in touch…

“You never bothered to call…

“so….

“I never said that…

“Who cares…

“Life is beyond all this…

“Move on…

“We are friends….

“I hate people who have two faces…

“You have to speak their language ya…

“You know how it is…

“Just chill…

“You toh never call..

“You lost so much of weight…?:)

“Ok…i am going…

“I always treated you as a family…

“Why it happens with me always…

“I am so happy that you are in my life…

“I wish i had never met you…

“Now i know life….

“I have learnt a lot….

“Let it be…

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Bright As Life

I was coming back from my music class..

Guru ji ne bohat saari raag rehearse karai…

Mood achcha tha…

I took a turn towards khar danda… Basti area…

Huge traffic but music was on my mind…

So I did not mind…

Two kids stared knocking my car window from outside… with a smile and hope…

I asked them what do they want…?

Uncle aage tak chhod do na…

I smiled and allowed them to sit.

And they took over my car…

Started checking air conditioner to its power to the rear view mirror to music system.

Iski toh…

I asked what do they do?

They both replied that they are in 4^th standard and generally they take lift from some carwaala.

One kid saw the poster of Wanted and screamed, wanteddddddd… salman bhaaaaai…

I said, “film dekhi tum dono ne?”

They both excitedly replied, “haaaaan…:)

I politely asked, “Bhoothnath dekhi…?”

They became very happy…

“haan, kitti baar dekhi…”

I was wearing my sunglasses and with a lot of style I said, “maine banai hai”

They both looked at me with complete disbelief.

One laughed, “ha ha… kuch bhi…”

Iski toh… Ye toh maan hi nahi rahe hain…

I firmly said, “arre maine banai hai….”

One immediately asked me, “achcha bataao Banku ke friend ka naam kya tha?”

I said, “Jojo.”

They both looked at each other. They were amused. Ye toh sahi bata diya isne…

One said, “wo toh koi bhi bata dega… tv mein itti baar aati hai…”

I stopped the car and removed my shades and said, “abe oye… mera naam vivek sharma hai… maine banai hai Banku waali Bhoothnath… kabhi mera naam type karna google mein toh same chehra dikhega… daag waala…”

They checked scar on my face… and one said, yaad rakhna ritesh, right side mein hai…

They wanted to check that scar is on right side so that in Google if its in wrong side… I am gone…

Ha Ha…

Indian Cinema ke 2 bade mega stars ke saath film banaane ke baad bhi identity crisis…

I loved it…

Then finally one kid asked me to give autograph…

And I said , “jab kuch bann jaaunga tab autograph dunga…”

Still time…………………………………………………………..

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Mirror always shows just the opposite of what you are…

Our right is his left and our left is his right…

I was waving my right hand and me in the mirror was replying back with his left hand:)

Mirror Image…

Real and un-real…

Its amazing how in nature or in our discoveries we have all the means to find what is real…

Even then we live in an un-real world..

Un-real world of our illusions and dreams…

Un-real world of our expectations and failures…

I meet a lot of people… most of them want to make it big without even knowing what they are capable of…

Without even knowing that its not in them…

They don’t want to realise and they don’t improve..

They look into the mirror and find themselves attractive but they don’t realise it’s the mirror image.. not real… or may be what they are seeing in the mirror is real..

They use mirror to check their decoration not their real person.

I asked my friends two days back that do you know who you are?

They proudly replied, “yes”

So they know who they are and even then confused what they want to do in life?very strange…

It’s not possible to know yourself and not know what you want.

I don’t agree with it.

I think most of us don’t know who we are and what direction of life we should take.

The reason is, we are un-real…we don’t want to know the real or truth of our lives.. because dreams are always colourful and we are colour blind in real life… )

We need to see mirror once again to see the other side of us… The real side..

Reality check.. That’s what we need.

We are talented, we are good.. But to be the best we must know who we are.. and we must improve in our efforts to achieve our goals…

I hope I am making any sense…:)

Have a nice real successful life:)

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One Wrong Turn..

One wrong turn and I was stuck in the traffic…

Traffic of life…

Unpredictable twists and turns…

Its true, if we are not clear what we are doing or which path we are going to follow, we are going to get stuck… pakka.

Sudhanshu was reading some article and said, I wonder such a small country Britain is and they ruled the whole world… how?

Clarity in every move makes you a winner… a leader…

British spoke with clarity… they knew the language and effective use of it…

They gave instructions and the world followed…

Clarity in the thought process… clarity in designing…

When we were busy developing so many new languages, they were fading in with one definite language, English.

A lot of time in our conversations we use “this and that” kind of phrase as we don’t know the right word.

It’s not because we don’t have a good vocabulary but its clumsy thought process.

We need to be clear in everything we do…

That’s one thing I follow strictly…

Even if I fail, at least it has a clarity why I failed.

Clarity comes with age and experience, but we must make an effort.

At least let’s be aware of this.

Small things like selecting dishes from a Menu in a restaurant needs clarity.

Generally we end up with the choice of the waiter…

And we call it experiment… that’s Tukka… fluke…

Let’s not make our lives a fluke… we are educated… we know what we must do… hai na…

Clarity To see Far...

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I have never heard that any animal or bird has ever committed suicide..

They live…

They survive any or all seasons…

They live from sun rise to sun set…

They (sun)rise and get set(tled)…

Only we live or try to die everyday… in the process to live we forget to live…

We don’t cherish what we have… we want something which will never come to us…

I am talking about future plans… strategies… achievements… and long list of desires…

Never ending hunger to achieve more…

And we lose our precious present time… Vartamaan…

When I read or observe or watch any film which is based on wars or those tough times, I realize how lucky we are to not have faced difficulties what people have faced…

History has clearly gave us definitions and reasons for what not to do… and how to live and cherish what we have…

But we have not learnt our lessons…

We try to die everyday… we have forgotten to love each other…

How beautiful it would be to sit with your parents and appreciate what they have done for us…

It’s so beautiful to just gift something to your neighbor for being there as your neighbor.

There would be so much of fun to call all your friends, who think that you have forgotten them and have a blast… dance… talk… talk loud… argue…forgive… hug… smile… sulk… cry…

That’s what make us human being… isn’t it?

I know stress has increased… status… success… failure… studies… love… relationships…

All have occupied our lives…

But we must live each moment and thank god that we live in a liberal country… We live in a great ambience…

We are rich in thoughts… we are growing and growing…

Just take a pause and look at yourself… you are so beautiful… look at that smile…

So many people love you… so many are trying to get in touch with you…

You are so popular…

You are so human…

Enjoy every moment…

Cherish life… :):)

Happy Dhan-Teras…

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Verbal Violence…

We generally call it debate…

Debate in the name of Religion… Relation… Ration… and so on…

I remember Gujarat riots took place and I was witnessing a debate…

Who is right and who is wrong…

That made me realize how confused but influential religion is..

It can provoke you to kill…

God…

I was witnessing a debate about corruption…

Everything seems wrong… everything…

Then how are we surviving…?

Then I realised that I too have words and vocabulary to participate in this violence called… verbal violence…

It’s the most dangerous form of violence as it penetrates your heart. Your belief… and it generates three most dangerous, complex emotions…

Anger… Ego and Stubbornness…

In this process I realized that I am learning something which is not part of my life… that’s not my life…

Religion is just a way to live life… not life…

What if I was not born in this religion?

So what if I am born in this religion…

Debates raise questions… just questions and misguide us to an unknown fear…

And in search of answers, we deviate…

I never wasted my life in these debates…

And grew up watching elders going wrong…

The problem is “iss mulq ne buzurg hona bandh kar diya hai”

Badon se chhote seekhte hain…

Pehle safed baal anubhavi zindagi ki nishaani hote the… ab… pareshani ki pehchan hain…

We must stop this verbal violence…

Opinions for everything… questions to everything… but no answers…

It’s a simple life…

Let’s keep it simple and beautiful…

Live… and let live…

Buddham Sharanam Gachchami…

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I am talking about your passion…

Passion for your field…

Snatch it… its all yours…

I remember when I was new in Mahesh Bhatt’s unit… all my seniors would ill-treat me by giving me strange work…

They were very unhappy with the fact that I am M. Sc. with Physics…

They gave me the work of spot boy…

I did not mind as I wanted to exist and learn…

I started snatching work from all…

One of my contemporary commented on my situation, “vivek… tu kaam kar hum toh aaram se baithenge…”

They were laughing and I was laughing too.:)

They did not realise that I made them sit forever…

Today non of those faces are around me… They don’t exist… they never existed…

I snatched all work from them…

I take inspiration from my sister Kavita… she lost her husband after just 2 and half years of marriage…

He died suddenly… Life had hit my sister from all directions…

I salute her; how she manages her job, her only son Kinshu and herself…

Amazing…

She enjoys her work so much you can’t imagine…

I was in Jabalpur and both my sisters were there as my mom is not well.

Kavita di was explaining my elder sister, Shikha di how she makes files, cases etc.

She is always excited about her work…

That’s an awesome attitude…

I have learnt that from her.

She loves to snatch work… and her seniors love her attitude.

She is an Inspector in central excise and I am proud of her…

So… Snatch it… Be indispensable… Do all work… Make them jobless…

And trust me… people in the form of hurdles, will disappear soon… they will sit…

So make them sit…

Kavita Di with her son Kinshu and Mom Shanti Sharma:)

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Happy Childhood... :)

For Everything…

Come On…

Its one life… Why to crib?

Brain doesn’t know negative positive… it knows data… just data… so why to feed it anything negative?

There is so much excitement in doing everything and anything…

Remember when we first went to school we cried… and when we left our school we cried…

Its the fear to join unknown and the fear to leave our own…

I remember how i enjoyed my childhood and now i am in my home town… visiting those lanes who brought me up and taught me life…

I am so excited…

Hurdles can’t take away our joy of living life…

Hai na…

We are more powerful then them… we are the human race… everything revolves around us…

We are the Universe…

Why to worry then:)

I feel we should really get excited in everything we do…

In offices… in sports… in watching films…  in flirting…

Everything…

Come On… we can’t be so bore:)

Its one life and believe in “so what” attitude… and just have fun…

So many things to do… so many friends to make… so many places to visit…

so many fights to fight…

And so many wins to win…

Look back and realise how we have been winning one sided…

Sab toh achcha hi hua hai…

So get excited and play to win… play to have fun…

Have a nice rocking day…

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