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There was a time when we would die to see one glimpse of our favourite actor or leader…

One autograph or one picture with them would be enough for whole our lives…

Now… It’s just a crowd of celebrities… Everyone and anyone is a celebrity…

Are they really celebrities?

Are we celebrating our lives with them?

I don’t think so…

I remember Amit ji was telling me that now when he goes out in the crowd, there are no flash bulbs of cameras… its only mobiles… its an important point which Amit ji made.

Fans have changed… Personalities have changed… content has changed…And its not a change for good…

Is media alone responsible for this phenomenon called “Created Celebrities”

May be…

New kids, who can’t speak, are writing articles…

TV channels are just making so called brands… crowd of so called celebrities…

News papers have become almost film or gossip magazines…

Few are still good and writing better stuff…

It’s dangerous… It’s misguiding… It has increased stress levels in our lives as now we have to maintain that celebrity status…

Everyone is “cool”… Ha ha…

If you read or see interviews of new born celebrities, you will laugh…

Nothing to talk… Nothing to read…

Even new born journalists are quite responsible for this…

They lack knowledge and experience and command in their medium as what to ask and why to ask…

Everyone needs to improve… Hai na…

We definitely need some quality in our celebrities to call them Celebrities…:)

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That’s what we do all the time…

Life has become like an “sms”…

“Short Messaging Service”

Mobiles have brought in a revolution… Seriously… in connecting with the world…

Everyone is reachable… everyone… at any time… any place… Hai na?

We are now in each other’s life…

Are we…?

Are we really connected…?

It’s my own observation… I could be wrong….

Relations… Human connect and life has become “sms”… Inbox is full of messages… short messages…

But…

We have learnt to “read and delete”… That’s the method we follow now… we are reachable… but we have gone far from each other…

When I sms someone… I wait for the reply… When I see the delivery report I know that person has received my feelings…

Hmmmm… still waiting… reply has not come…

Maybe that person has read and deleted it…:)

Many creative people send sms’s to actors and wait for their reply for years…

One reply from an actor can change their destiny…

Can you believe it..? Sms’s have become that important?

How we have cornered our own emotions and life to the world of sms… short messaging service…

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It’s scary… for my kind of people… who love to have friends… who crave for real friends… who really want to connect…

Three nights back me and my friend were exchanging sms’s and asking how was the day and all… suddenly she said, “ok… u tk cr… c ya soon… gd nt..”

And conversation was over…

God that’s really abrupt and short…

I think when we lived far and when there was no mobile or sms, emotions were stronger… we craved for each other… we missed each other… we had a better relationship…

Now its “read and delete”

Tentative…

Now how to overcome this… I am so addicted to mobile and life both…?

Life is squeezed to a phone book… which we can delete anytime…

Relations have really become short… very short… even take care has become… tk cr…

Emotions in abbreviations..!

I am worried for myself… I know I have a short life… and relations are becoming shorter than life…

Please don’t “read and delete…”

Preserve…

At least for one life…

Connect…:):)

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It is…

Information is power…

If we are informed, we are powerful…

Half the time people ask me or tell me that, “sir unki requirement kuch aur thi… hamara audition bhi nahi liya…”

It’s just that you were not informed. You were not prepared and you thought, “unki requirement kuch aur thi…”

You don’t read…

You don’t collect information…

We don’t…

Mostly people don’t read between the lines…

They go by the method…

Nobody has time to contemplate…

We want everything to work for us without any real hard work or strategy…

Be informed… Be alert… Destiny never knocks any door… It just stands near you…

We must know how to convert our information to opportunity… Opportunity to grow and reach where you want to be…

Most of the people in my life are very lazy and not so designed. They lose their mobiles and contact numbers every now and then.

I have told them to always keep a back-up and write it down in a diary but who has time…

So time also doesn’t follow you… You miss a chance every time you lose a number…

Mahesh Bhatt used to get surprised that how many people I know and I am so updated…

Aziz ji used to laugh at me for my networking…

The fact was and is… I am well informed… I update myself everyday… On everything…

It’s simple… I am helping myself to have a better judgement… to have a power to decide…

Forget career… we don’t know a lot of facts about ourselves… hai na…

We can’t be so lazy and unaware… let’s collect information and use it correctly…

Let’s be powerful… Let’s be intelligent…

Let’s read between the lines, let’s make ourselves more informed…

And lead a better life… like a leader…

Have a nice weekend…

Muaaah……:):)

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We are most important in our lives…

We must give importance to ourselves first…

If we don’t treat ourselves well nobody will treat us good…

I have lived my life in helping people… In adjusting with them…

Staying anywhere and eating anything what people offered me…  never asked them money…  working in sad conditions…  getting bad rather ill treatment…

All in the name of dosti yaari.com…

Now I refuse to give any chance to anyone to ill treat me for any reason…

Nope…

I am the most important person in my life…

And now I believe in that…

I remember my journey and hard work…

I also remember how people change and backstab you…

But their journey stops after a while…

It has to stop…

We must give proper value to ourselves… Pamper ourselves…

Take time in taking decisions… Realise your worth…

If someone doesn’t recognise your effort…  Make it a point… make them realise…

This much we can do for us…

I meet a lot of people who pretend to be good and cultured…

Who pretend to follow your vision…

Destiny also pretends with them..:)

It comes in the garb of wrong success…

Wrong success…? What is that…? How success can be wrong…?

That’s the fun…  success in the form of illusion…

Tentative… 

When you think you have arrived…. Ha ha…

It’s the beginning of the end…

We have a lot of negative people around…  selfish… ill mannered…

We must discard them… Immediately…

Don’t waste yourself… I will not… I don’t repeat my mistakes…

So from today… Feel important…  feel at the top…

Remember… you are indispensable…

They can’t do without you…

Have a nice new, fresh, happy and an important day..:)

i am not crowd..

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Uff…

How much we talk…

Specially me…

Non stop… for hours…

If you observe…  in a day… we talk more than we do…

Mobile has added to it… every one is in everyone’s life…

All the time…

We are with each other… kahan ho… kya chal raha hai…  aur batao… how’s life… kaam kaisa hai… etc etc etc etc…

And what do we talk… all nonsense… rarely creative… mostly negative…

We have to learn to ignore…  a lot of things…

My mother and sisters are still fighting over same decades old issues…

I am still narrating same incidents to new friends…

Hmmmm… Take a pause… don’t think anything… just keep quiet… even in your inner mind…

See even now something is going on in your mind…

Unless we don’t stop this wrong thought process, we won’t be able to come up with anything new…

It’s like a loop… Same talks are going on in our mind… making us clumsy…

It’s like running on a tread mill…

You know we are not growing… because we talk to much…

Nature talks through sounds… such beautiful sounds…

And it’s never touch and go… it always stays… it flows with its natural flow…

Amazing…

Our thought process should be the same… natural… flawless flow…

And we must grow in our conversations…

Can’t be wasting time in thinking and talking the same… all the time…

Lets pick up new fights… new areas of conversations…

Bohat bol liya… I love you and all…

Ab karte hain… genuinely… pyar…:)

Lets stop talking so much and save our own energy…

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hmmmmmmmmm....

Chalte-Chalte film was about to release… Aziz Mirza ji’s wife Nirmala aunty had passed away. Aziz ji was in deep pain so were we.

I was in Simla when I heard this bad news.  I don’t know what was my connect with Nirmala ji but she was very fond of me and I miss her even today…

I went to meet Aziz ji the moment I came back. Shakhan had called me. He said, you guys reach… I will also join in some time…

Shah Rukh came little late and we decided that we will not create a sad ambiance.

We were there to cheer up Aziz ji…

I praised Shakhan for distributing bonus to the unit before the release of Chalte-Chalte.

Rarely producers do that… Nobody bothers to pay due payment, forget about bonus.

But that’s Shakhan…

We sat there for few hours.  Shakhan decided to leave so did i..

We got down together.

Shakhan asked me, “kaise jaayega tu…”

I replied, “riksha mein…”

He said, “you made so many technicians…you got them their first chance… they all are standing in industry because of you…and they have cars… you should have one too…”

I smiled.

He offered me a car then.

“chal I will gift you a santro…”

I stopped him, “nahi Shakhan.. main le lunga jab mere paas paise aa jaayenge..”

He said it’s from him. I don’t need to pay. It was really sweet of him. But I refused.

I said, I want to get a big car not small one..:)

And I did not take that car… only for one reason…

It would have not given me sense of achievement…

I want to fight to achieve my goals my way.. I don’t want any support system for that…

And I did…. Today I drive Honda City… and hoping to buy Merc very soon…

No… I am not boasting or anything… just trying to remind you that the real achievement is when you work hard for it…apni zindagi ki ladai khud ladani chahiye…

Haath se pisi chatney mein jo maza hai wo mixi se pisi chatney mein nahi….:)

Hai Na Abha ji….

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Hey its Abha ji.s birthday today.:) from all of us wish you a great year full of love and happiness.:) happy birthday Abha ji..

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This is the worst attitude we can have…

The Chalta Hai attitude.

Why…?

We are just not quality conscious at all…

Why…?

Two days back my editor Sanjay Verma gave a bill to an office boy whokept that bill somewhere and then forgot about it…

He just smiled and said, “ek bill hi toh gum gaya hai sir… chalta hai…”

It’s become a part of our system now and we are completely fine with it.

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I can’t believe it…

I hate it…

I am dead punctual… but all other people are so slow and come late so often…

“Kya hua Priyanka… why are you late…?”

She smilingly replied, “sir ek din late toh chalta hai”

Amit ji sends an sms even if he is late by 5 minutes.

“vivek… My apologies… I am running late by 5 minutes.”

He never says, “chalta hai…”

We need to improve on this… big time…

In every aspect of our life… from daily routine to Romance…:)

You know what I mean…

Quality… professionalism… dedication… Double check… Self discipline…

If not then destiny will say…

“chalta hai…”

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