Sep-2009
30
WednesdayBy: Vivek Sharma30
Snatch It…
I am talking about your passion…
Passion for your field…
Snatch it… its all yours…
I remember when I was new in Mahesh Bhatt’s unit… all my seniors would ill-treat me by giving me strange work…
They were very unhappy with the fact that I am M. Sc. with Physics…
They gave me the work of spot boy…
I did not mind as I wanted to exist and learn…
I started snatching work from all…
One of my contemporary commented on my situation, “vivek… tu kaam kar hum toh aaram se baithenge…”
They were laughing and I was laughing too.:)
They did not realise that I made them sit forever…
Today non of those faces are around me… They don’t exist… they never existed…
I snatched all work from them…
I take inspiration from my sister Kavita… she lost her husband after just 2 and half years of marriage…
He died suddenly… Life had hit my sister from all directions…
I salute her; how she manages her job, her only son Kinshu and herself…
Amazing…
She enjoys her work so much you can’t imagine…
I was in Jabalpur and both my sisters were there as my mom is not well.
Kavita di was explaining my elder sister, Shikha di how she makes files, cases etc.
She is always excited about her work…
That’s an awesome attitude…
I have learnt that from her.
She loves to snatch work… and her seniors love her attitude.
She is an Inspector in central excise and I am proud of her…
So… Snatch it… Be indispensable… Do all work… Make them jobless… 
And trust me… people in the form of hurdles, will disappear soon… they will sit…
So make them sit…
Kavita Di with her son Kinshu and Mom Shanti Sharma:)
Dear Vivek bhai,
दर्द का अहसास कहाँ हो पाता है ,
दर्द हुए बिना……….
रिश्तों का अहसास कहाँ हो पाता है ,
अकेले हुए बिना…………
समय का अहसास कहाँ हो पाता है,
समय खोये हुए बिना…..
मंजिल का अहसास कहाँ हो पाता है ,
रास्ता भटके हुए बिना……
With best regards,
Shalabh Gupta
Shalabh ji ye aapke liye…
“kuch logo ko iss baat ka gham hai…
ki ye kam hai wo kam hai..
kisi ki aankhein nam hain…
kisi ko hosh kam hai…
aur ek hum hain:)
PRIYA Vivek ji
Mere ek geet he kuch bol is sandarbh me .yeh geet aap meri aane waali book “Khalish “me pad sakenge.ghar me sab kushal rahe yeh prabhu se kaamna hain.
जो ख़ुद से हार गया वो जग से हार गया
जो ख़ुद से जीत गया वक़्त उस पे वार गया
अनहोनी से ही अपनी होनी को बना लेना
रूठी हुई किस्मत को एक नई दिशा देना
आसान नहीं इतना मुश्किल भी नहीं बिल्कुल
जीता वही आखिर मे , जो पी अश्रुधार गया .
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behatreen Kaviraaj..aaag hai baat mein…:)
Hi Vivek ji, loved this line ‘they did not realise that i made them sit forever’..You write so well!!
And thanks so much for writing about your sister Kavita ji.. She truly is an inspiration for all of us..Truly admire her spirit and the way she has stayed strong and composed.. May God bless her with a lot of happiness..
thanks sadaa…ya kavita di is really strong and dedicated to her job…:)
Hello Mr. Vivek,
You’ve got great attitude man. I love it. By sharing your experiences with us you have always imparted valuable lessons for us to emulate.
I also admire you sister for her grit and determination in the face of a huge personal loss and emerging strong and victorious. She is indeed a strong woman.
I wish your mother a speedy recovery. My best wishes to you sisters and Kinshu.
Regards,
Melwyn
Thanks Melwyn…we must take life in positive stride… it comes once…and we have to live it o the fullest..:)
प्रिय विवेक जी,
सादर नमस्कार!
कविता दीदी जी के हौसले को मैं नमन करता हूँ। जीवन के कठिन समय में उन्होंने ख़ुद को संभाला । यह कठिन समय ही हमें सही अर्थों में जीना सीखाता है। उनका जीवन हम सब के लिए प्रेरणास्रोत है।
आपका ही,
शलभ गुप्ता
It’s really inspirational as well as motivational. If we see the positive aspect of any incident, we will be boosted from positive energy of the universe that will again help us to overcome the negativity caused by the incident.
Thanx
Yes Pankaj… hav to be positive and see the better side of life:)
Hi Bobby!
These are really touchy pictures,reminds me the day of Kavita Di’s Marriage when we all friends got together and did whatever the little job of support we could provide. I remember it was shocking to learn from u that time that she lost her husband when u already left for your mission in Bombay. I can feel it is because of only her support that u are there what u r now. She had literally single handed took care of Aunt in jabalpur when possibly u were needed badly,but she let u continued your journey ( at that times all felt it to be endless journey). We understand she being the biggest cause for ur success,of course with Auntie blessing and courage for her life that allowed u to carry on ur mission.
I mat both of them with my small family 2-3 times in ur absence 2 years back. Our topic of discussion almost hanged around u only. I do respect their role in making “Vivek Sharma” THE DIRECTOR OF BOLLYWOOD, that as you rightly wrote still dream for others who misbehaved & illtreated u and now they are still workless and even don’t exist.
Carry On Man, We all luv u.
Thanks Sonu..ya its Kavita di who supported me and made me…and its all blessings from “apne log”..
प्रिय विवेक जी,
सादर नमस्कार!
आजकल, सब मुझे कुछ ना कुछ कह ही देते हैं। आप भी कह लीजीये ” कुछ लोगों को ……. और एक हम हैं…..”।
कोई बात नहीं सर जी। आपकी हर बात कबूल हैं हमें……
हम जानते हैं कि इन दिनों अपनी हालत कुछ इस तरह ही है…… ।
आपका ही,
शलभ गुप्ता
aap humour nahi samajhe janaab shalabh ji…ye meri kavita mujh par hai aap par nahi…
Hi Vivek,
I know I am a bit late on this, but I wish your mom has already recovered well. I am sure you had great peaceful time with family and a well deserved break. Also, great to Kavita di’s latest photo.
Cheers to you and all fellow bloggers!
vivek ji
Salute to Your didi , who inspite of adverse situations gave courage and support to whole family . She in fact is an angel ( a representative of God ) she must have helped hundreds in her work field also .
with luv
प्रिय विवेक जी,
आज की रात बहुत ख़ास है, क्योंकि आज शरद पूर्णिमा की रात है। आज, आप चाँद को देखना ना भूलना ।
आपको “शरद पूर्णिमा ” की हार्दिक शुभकामनाएं……. ।
सादर और साभार !
शलभ गुप्ता
Bilkul dekhenge shalabh ji..aaj hamaare ghar satynarayan ji ki katha thi…
प्रिय विवेक जी,
मैंने सुना है, कि आपके जबलपुर में गौरी घाट पर एक गणेश जी का मन्दिर है जहाँ व्यक्ति अपनी मन की मुराद को एक कागज़ पर लिखकर , नारियल के साथ बांधकर भगवान् श्री गणेश जी को चढाते हैं। और भगवान् उनके मन की इच्छा पूर्ण करते हैं।
आपका ही,
शलभ गुप्ता
bhagwan har ghaat par mehnat karne waalon ki muraad poori karte hain..:) shalabh ji… gwaarighat behad khoobsoorat narmada ji ka tath hai:
Dear Vivek ji,
We should always remember that:
“Things are to be used and people are to be loved, but the problem in today’s world is that, People are used and things are loved…….”
Regards,
Shalabh Gupta
hlo sir,hwz life…long tme….wt u tl abt ur workin xprnce…writ now i go thrug thz…i m in sahara samay….mai abhi naya hoon to i don no all the wrks there kuch log vry supportive kuch log behavin vry strange kehte hain ‘PATA NAHI KAHA KAHA SE AA JATE HAI’…i tke thz as a chlge aur socha ki mai bataunga kaha se aaya hoon,jst wait n watch..manier times i have to say sry to people wthout doin anythn wrong…agar vo bhi galat hai tab bhi mujhe hi sorry bolna hai…i nvr go thrug wt thiz type humliation bcz i blongz to bsnz family..sme dayz b4 people are wrkn in my under and now i m doin wrk in sme1 under….thtz life 4u…LIFE IS VERY STRANGE….U NEVER KNOW….even i don have time to sleep thez dyz…i learn 1mre thing after thiz…. ‘THERE IS NO SHORTCUT FOR SUCCESS….tkc…god bls u n family….love u!
its good that you don’t get time to sleep…Nitin…thats very good…keep doing work and snatch it from others…make yourself indispensable…all my best wishes to you:)
Hi Vivek,
I had posted on this blog a few days back for some reason it didnt upload..I cant remember what I had written fully but here we go again..
Its great to read that you have snatched it from all and left them still sitting, I wonder if you have have the chance to revisit them, they are still sitting where you left them…
Your Sister Kavita didi is a awesome inspiration source for you and all of us..tell her this from us
Kinshu, is looking very smart, maybe a budding upcoming bollywood star:) all our wishes to the family
All the best always
Kishore
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thanks Kishore ji…i keep meeting my old buddies.. and try to motivate them.. and they will make it some day i am sure.
thanks for your wishes for Kinshu and Kavita di…:)
प्रिय विवेक जी,
“मेहंदी से सजी हुई , उनकी हथेलियाँ ,
आज चंदा करेगा , उनसे अठखेलियाँ।”
शलभ गुप्ता
Dear Bobby,
It is like going back to history… as I brouse the articles I have missed out… going back one step at a time… I see the photo which stand out… Maaji..the inspiration is there I tell Namita and Kshitij this is the one pillar of a family the other being Sir {Superintendent Sir] who lived and worked for the betterment of a family which becomes exemplary.. to be emulated, copied and transpired in life.. a life lived with dignity, courage and strength.
Coming to Madam, it is a pleasure as usual for us just the remain in touch.. sometimes just knowing that the other is faring well is enough… she has risen as a meteor.. inspired those around her and here I would like to tell my blog friends.. this family has done so much of charity without anybody knowing about it…. Madam we all salute you for your strength.. I have seen you brave this world since last 17 years… right from the stage when others hurt you till the stage where others envy you… Keep going… incidentally any pictures in the offering ?
Kinshu, may God bless you with the best he has to offer. Saw you today.. you have grown up really fast… we are waiting to hear more of your name…keep going. I remember you as a boy of one year coming assiduously for the 15th August and 26th January celebrations to the office, with your mother and today you are the baton holder of the much respected family.
Sometimes words defy the feelings for a family. God give the courage and strength to this lovely family.
As always,
Diljit,Namita and Kshitij.
thanks for your kind words Dijit.. god bless you and your lovely family:)
Dearest Bobby,
I missed out on blogging and am trying to cover it up, by reading your overtime.
I was listening to the music of Blue and felt that three of the numbers will do tremendously well. I also saw the rushes and feel that the film has the right elements to make it a commercial hit.
The other day, we saw the movie “Wanted” by Prabhudeva. It was an out and out chatpata affair… but, we need all type of ingredients in food…. so too about movies. The movie is fast paced and has foot tapping numbers. The cinematography is good but the movie slows down as it reaches its climax. Here I want to ask you, why do the climax in any movie lacks the punch ? Can we not end a movie with the audience to guess the end ? I have seen some english movies with such ends…where the audience has to guess whether the ending was happy or sorrow…
I hope in your future ventures we may see such experimentation….
Affectionately yours
Diljit
Indian cinema was rich in its content with definite ending..Diljit its the “so called” new wave cinema which has no ending no beginning.. Whatever people think or say, the truth is making films is a specialized job and it improves with experience.. so new makers are just making films…
without using the right power of such a strong medium…
Dearest Bobby,
Exactly ! A film cannot be made by an assembly of choreographer, writer, music director, artists without the specialization and expertise it requires.
Just as a Doctor cannot be made with good nurses, instruments, hospital premises….
He should be specialised for his work, in art, it is extremly to word the feelings and then it is more difficult to express the feelings on screen…
To visualise and recreate the chemistry requires a scientist…of cinema….a Satyajit Ray,a Bimal Roy, a Guru Datt and of the present generation a Gulzar saab, a Vishal Bharadwaj…. and we wait for your name to be added in the list…….
The thought of eyes speaking, expressions challenging the other artist is the work of a genius…. in Bhootnath we saw glimpses and we are sure the good work continues……
With respect
Diljit
film making is team work and it requires dedication from all diljit:)
Dear Bobby,
Miscellaneous musings,
DRAWING ATTENTION.
How do we draw attention of all. A small child by his cry or gibber or a nudge or a kick…. he draws the attention of all. He also draws attention by his pranks.. further, be is also adored for his manners, studies, play, music, dance, acts, or vocal abilities. Some children also draw attention by trying to be ill…
THEN WE GROW UP….
The traits continue…
but, now these become more polished and refined since years of rearing and pampering these makes them grow into a full fledged cactus in many a cases…
I have seen people do and forget… not shout…
I have seen people not do anything…but only cry…
I have seen people who draw attention by funny antics, absurd behaviour and all the tricks which they learnt in the childhood….
I too have learnt a few…to work hard, to be in future, to learn to face defeats as milestones to graph myself again and again….
so I tell myself innumerable times, if I fall and do not get up I will be tampered, so with each fall I stand up, keep walking and also remind myself of the object, which made me fall… for I should avoid the same again… the same fall, hurt, dejection, rejection, and elimination…….
Diljit
living in real time makes us real…no illusions.. capability to face the real…the truth… its important that we learn… but its more important that we implement what we have learnt Diljit…
Hi Bobby
when you came to JBP I tried to contact you , I left my Visiting card in your home.we are making list of Modelian of our batch. If you are interested contact me
Vivek Rusia Advocate
sure…i will…when i will come to jabalpur..take care Vivek:)