Oct-2009
19
MondayBy: Vivek Sharma19
Clarity…
One Wrong Turn..
One wrong turn and I was stuck in the traffic…
Traffic of life…
Unpredictable twists and turns…
Its true, if we are not clear what we are doing or which path we are going to follow, we are going to get stuck… pakka.
Sudhanshu was reading some article and said, I wonder such a small country Britain is and they ruled the whole world… how?
Clarity in every move makes you a winner… a leader…
British spoke with clarity… they knew the language and effective use of it…
They gave instructions and the world followed…
Clarity in the thought process… clarity in designing…
When we were busy developing so many new languages, they were fading in with one definite language, English.
A lot of time in our conversations we use “this and that” kind of phrase as we don’t know the right word.
It’s not because we don’t have a good vocabulary but its clumsy thought process.
We need to be clear in everything we do…
That’s one thing I follow strictly…
Even if I fail, at least it has a clarity why I failed.
Clarity comes with age and experience, but we must make an effort.
At least let’s be aware of this.
Small things like selecting dishes from a Menu in a restaurant needs clarity.
Generally we end up with the choice of the waiter… 
And we call it experiment… that’s Tukka… fluke…
Let’s not make our lives a fluke… we are educated… we know what we must do… hai na…
Clarity To see Far...
You pick amazing topics to write.. simple subjects we dont even care to think about.. Thanks for making me ponder each time i read your blog..
Take care
Regards
Sadaa
thanks Sadaa the great…
Wonderful thoughts Vivek bhai
And the photograph is symbolic, it makes clarity on you have tried to convey through your words
How are you ?
Take good care
raman
\m/ (^_^) \m/
Good to see you Raman ji…hope all well with you…i am happy and crazy as i was:)…
Dear vivek ji,
bilkul theek kah rahe hain aap, hamare aash pas eishe
bahut saare log hote hain jo kahte hain ” i dont care”
kandha uchka ke.kaam theek se suru nahi karte aur ooshe khatam karne ke bara me sochne lagte hain.aur sadaa ne theek hi kaha hai aapke bare me,aap hamesha simple topic men bahut bari baat kah jate hain.aap writer hain.
Regards
Narayan mishra
nmishra12@yahoo.co.in
thanks Narayan ji.. main kuch bhi nahi.. bass dil ki baatein share kar leta hoon aap sab se…:)
AAp thhek keh rahe hain…ye attitude inn logo ko peeche le jaata hai…
Namaska dear Vivek,
I am sorry for delay, i didn’t come online because i felt not well..
Anyway I wish you all best on Diwali and New year:
Health, Success and Happiness..
Warm regards,
Zhenya
Please take care of yourself Zhenya ji..and wish you good health with loads of happiness always:)
It was yet another enlightening post, Mr. Vivek. I guess clarity of thought is what makes you a good Director.
You have made a very adept and nice comparison between the traffic and life. We must indeed have clarity of thought and purpose to efficiently negotiate the traffic and reach our destination safely, and the same holds true for the journey of life also.
Regards,
Melwyn
Very right Melwyn ji..its the clarity which makes our life easier and better…
Hi Vivek,
Great to see my friends here responding too.
You have truely hit the nail on the head, the picture is very relevant to our clouded thoughts, the british didnt just have clarity in their language but also what they wished to accomplished, we waste so much time pondering on the smaller picture, without really looking at the real reasons or set a goals on what we wish to accomplish..if we focus our thoughts and our minds, our accomplishments can be much bigger then what we had originally set out to acheive..
Kishore UK
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Dearest Bobby,
Good morning..one wrong turn and opps.. one wrong act and pooh… yesterday I penned my musings and ouch they have got moderated… so clarity is what I will stick to… clarity while responding, interacting, addressing .. with someone whom I adore not now since he is a big name but since the time he decided to brave the world and made his decision to enter Bollywood.. keep going…Diljit
Dear Vivek ji
Few lines of one of my poem in this reference.
“bheed me chalte rahe aur bheed hi me kho gaye
isliye kuch kaddawar bhi qad me baone ho gaye
amrit peene ke liye aatur to hai hum raat din
jab baari manthan ki mili to taan chaadar so gaye
wo falaa easa hai,falaa waisa,yahi kahte kahte
mashvira dete rahe aur khud daastaan ho gaye
All right @Deepak Sharma
http://www.kavideepaksharma.com
khud daastan ho gaye…bohatkhob deepak ji:)
Hi Vivek,
Great to see my friends here responding too.
You have truely hit the nail on the head, the picture is very relevant to our clouded thoughts, the british didnt just have clarity in their language but also what they wished to accomplished, we waste so much time pondering on the smaller picture, without really looking at the real reasons or set a goals on what we wish to accomplish..if we focus our thoughts and our minds, our accomplishments can be much bigger then what we had originally set out to acheive..
Kishore UK
BigB Facebook Group
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p.s I know you wanted to respond but the replies became too close so sending it again:))
Dearest Bobby,
Miscellaneous musings…
adapting the knowledge is essential… reading clarity was an experience…
Some unit was not depositing the outstanding dues it was having patronage/guidence from some of the office bearers… the matter lingered on…till…the Head called us for recoveries, yesterday itself… one day… he was clear in his approach… get the dues deposited and report….
The party started the same games by evading us…but, were told they had two options- either not to pay and face the coercive actions or pay and remain happy… there was no third way out… clarity in communication… the act led that taxes have been deposited…for there was no recourse left to the other side… Thanks for your article which came in handy while executing the operation….With love
Diljit
Its your own clarity Diljit:)
Dearest Bobby,
First thing I do after getting up in the morning and bowing in reverence before my parents and God, is to open your blog… the same simile greets me as it has done since last so many years… I browse if there is anything new, else I read your interactions or posts sent by others, by the members of this extended family…feeling satisfied I narrate something worth say or ask for opinion or guidence and leave the blog with a happy mind… a contended feeling that we have someone in this world who shares our thoughts, feelings and replies without anything being asked in return… aplenty of goodness and love binds us together…. with the deepest of best wishes….
Diljit
Its so nice that we all share our lives and thoughts through blogs.. i am happy to use this platform in human way..Have a nice day always Diljit:)
Hi Vivek
It is very essential to have clarity in both thoughts and actions for one to stand a chance to be successful in this life .Otherwise we shall be leading our life on the basis of fluke which is not the best way to go about it.
Thanks
Gaurav
very right Gaurav:)
प्रिय विवेक जी,
सादर नमस्कार !
आज कई दिनों बाद आपसे रूबरू हो रहा हूँ। आप तो मेरी ज़िन्दगी के हर “किन्तु और परन्तु” से वाकिफ हैं। आजकल , मुझे ज़िन्दगी कुछ ठहरी हुई सी लगती है। क्या करूँ, कुछ नया लिखना भी चाहूँ तो ऐसा लगता है शब्द ना जाने कहाँ खो गये हैं । मेरे साथ ऐसा क्यों हो रहा है विवेक जी आजकल ? बहुत दिनों बाद यह कुछ पंक्तियाँ लिख पाया हूँ…………
“ऐ - वक्त मेरे, तू बार-बार मेरा इम्तहान क्यों लेता है ?
दो कदम आगे चलता हूँ, चार कदम पीछे कर देता है।
जब भी कश्ती उतारता हूँ, समुन्दर में तूफान खड़ा कर देता है।
ऐ - वक्त मेरे, तू बार-बार मेरा इम्तहान क्यों लेता है ?
एक-एक करके बड़ी लगन से , खुशियों के बीज बोता हूँ।
खिल भी ना पाते हैं फूल, कि मौसम को पतझड़ कर देता है।
ऐ - वक्त मेरे, तू बार-बार मेरा इम्तहान क्यों लेता है ?
मुस्कराते हुए लम्हे ना जाने कहाँ खो गये,
एक-एक करके सब मुझसे जुदा हो गये।
भीड़ भरी सड़कों पर भी तन्हा कर देता है।
ऐ - वक्त मेरे, तू बार-बार मेरा इम्तहान क्यों लेता है ?
बहुत कुछ लिखना चाहता हूँ , हाले दिल बयां करना चाहता हूँ।
लिखने बैठता हूँ जब भी मगर, मुझे नि: शब्द कर देता है।
ऐ - वक्त मेरे, तू बार-बार मेरा इम्तहान क्यों लेता है ?
आपका ही,
शलभ गुप्ता
think positive shalabh ji:)
Dear Vivek ji,
वर्ष गुज़र रहे निरंतर , धीरे- धीरे कम हो रहा अन्तर
टेडी - मेडी जीवन किया रेखाएं , कब होंगी सामानांतर।
भविष्य से जुडा हुआ वर्तमान है,
दिन के उजाले में भी कितना अन्धकार है ।
कई यक्ष प्रश्नों के, मै आज भी ढूंढ रहा उत्तर।
वर्ष गुज़र रहे निरंतर , धीरे- धीरे कम हो रहा अन्तर,
ना जाने कब कैसे , कहानी बन गई ज़िन्दगी की,
कुछ ही रीलें शेष है, कब का बीत गया मध्यांतर ।
बनना चाहा अविरल धारा मैंने, पहाडों पर भी रस्ते बनाये मैंने,
पहुचें जो मंजिल के करीब, सूख गयीं सब नदियाँ और समुन्दर।
वर्ष गुज़र रहे निरंतर , धीरे- धीरे कम हो रहा अन्तर ।
Regards,
Shalabh Gupta
Dear Vivek ji,
मंजिल की तलाश में ,
अनवरत चल रहे कदम मेरे ,
तुम्हें देखकर ठहरने से लगे हैं।
बीत गई है काली रात ग़मों की ,
आशाओं के पंछी चहकने से लगे हैं।
मंजिल की तलाश में,
अनवरत चल रहे कदम मेरे ,
तुम्हें देखकर ठहरने से लगे हैं।
बरसों से रैक में रखी, धूल की परत ज़मीं
Diary के पन्नों को एक बार
फिर से हम पलटने लगे हैं।
कई बरस पहले diary में रखे,
गुलाब के फूल आज एक बार
फिर से महकने लगे हैं।
मंजिल की तलाश में,
अनवरत चल रहे कदम मेरे,
तुम्हें देखकर ठहरने से लगे हैं।
Yours,
Shalabh Gupta
bohat achcha likha hai shalabh ji aapne…chalte rahiye..aage badhte rahiye:)
Dear Vivek ji,
Ek nai kavita aapki nazar……
अगर, आज तुम ना आए तो…..
मेरी प्रतीक्षा के क्षण,
कण -कण करके टूट कर बिखर जायेंगे ।
शायद , फिर कभी समेट नहीं पाऊंगा
आंखों से बहते हुए ज़ज्बातों को …
गुजरते हुए इंतज़ार के लम्हों को
अगर, आज तुम ना आए तो…..
ज़िन्दगी की बेरंग तस्वीर में ,
कोई रंग नहीं भर पाऊंगा ,
अगर, आज तुम ना आए तो…..
पहले भी जिया है ,
हर लम्हा , कई बार मर-मर के ……
इस तरह अब और ,
मै जी नहीं पाऊंगा ।
अगर, आज तुम ना आए तो…..
Yours,
Shalabh Gupta
very nice shalabh ji:)
Dear Vivek ji,
कई बार दिल ने चाहा है , सारे बंधनों को तोड़ना ….
किंतु, वक्त की बेड़ियों में जकडा हुआ हूँ मैं …
तोड़ नहीं पाया , प्रयास किए कई बार …
निष्फल रहे मगर हर बार …
कई बार दिल ने चाहा है , सारे बंधनों को तोड़ना ….
तन के बंधन से गहरे हैं , भावों के बंधन….
मन से मन हैं आज भी बंधे हुए….
यह और बात है जमाना हुआ उनसे मिले हुए॥
कई बार दिल ने चाहा है , सारे बंधनों को तोड़ना ….
मैं तोड़ता, तो तुम भी आ जाते तोड़ कर सारे बंधन॥
परन्तु यह सम्भव हो ना सका ,
दो सामानांतर रेखाओं की तरह ,
गुज़र रहा जीवन हमारा , कभी ना मिलने की लिए …….
कई बार दिल ने चाहा है , सारे बंधनों को तोड़ना ….
regards,
Shalabh Gupta
todd deejiye har negative thought ko shalabh ji… aur dekhiye aasmaan mein kitne taare hain…sab hamaare hain:)